I’m a two time rape survivor. The first happened with a person I trusted and once loved, but it turns out they were betraying me the whole time. It’s upsetting to see how systems in place, especially fraternities like theirs, have stayed silent since they were publicly outed as a rapist and abuser. The second happened abroad in Hong Kong which was equally challenging, but I’ve started to heal. Healing hasn’t been easy and is a process. I’m finding my voice and my power once again.